I've learned that...

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.

I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.

I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you keep going long after you think you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I've learned that you should never tell a child his/her dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating and what a tragedy it would be if he/she believed it.

I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life.

I've learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give to your loved one, when they cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.

I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

Cekal & berdikari walau ada kekurangan

Korang ingat tak lagi iklan Bernas time Aidilfitri tahun ni? Sedih siot...Story plot iklan ni pasal dua sahabat karib yang menempuh perjalanan sukar untuk ziarah pusara ibu pada awal pagi Syawal. Aku bukan setakat tengok kat TV je, banyak kali aku view kat Youtube....terharu rase & air mata aku pun tak sedar ngalir.

Apa tak nye, biar pun golongan kelainan upaya (OKU) tapi kesanggupan nak pulang ke kampung....I tell you it's not just an ACT!! Ni betul-betul hakikat sebenar yang dilalui oleh dua kanak-kanak istimewa ni dalam menjalani kehidupan seharian dengan penuh berdikari.

Kalau kita tengok secara zahirnya, dorang berdua dilahirkan dengan keupayaan berbeza. Namun dorang sedaya upaya lakukan tugas tanpa mengharapkan bantuan orang lain, sebaliknya berusaha melakukannya sebaik mungkin....kalau kita mungkin dah surrender dah!! Cuba kita pikir & reflect.

Ahmad Abdul Matin Asmadi (12 tahun) dan Amirul Hafizi Mohd Yusof (8 tahun)....aku tengok memang serasi & terpancar keikhlasan dalam lakonan dorang untuk iklan ni. Dorang bukannya pro dalam lakonan. Tapi mesej memang sampai....tertusuk dalam sanubari. Aku pun terus terdetik, betapa daifnya aku dalam dunia kita sendiri.

Banyak artikel pasal dorang yang aku baca. Dorang berdua ni memang dilahirkan dengan mengalami masalah pendengaran dan pertuturan. Walau bagaimanapun Ahmad masih mampu menjalani rutin harian seperti kanak-kanak lain....with no problem at all!!

Ada juga dalam satu artikel yang aku baca, difahamkan Ahmad ni memang suka sangat memasak...wow!! Hebatlah dik. Malah mampu pula sediakan makanan untuk diri sendiri. Masak telur goreng untuk peringkat umur 12 tahun....ok la tu.

Kalau Fizi pula dia cakap dia dah kena latih sejak kecil lagi untuk urus diri supaya percaya dengan kebolehan diri dan mampu melakukan dengan baik. Dia yang bersekolah di sekolah khas untuk murid cacat penglihatan, tidak sikit pun punya masalah sebab menurut mak dia mampu membaca dan menulis menggunakan tulisan braille. Aku selalu kalau masuk lif, tutup mata feeling-feeling...aku cuba raba dot-dot braille tu....satu pun haram aku tak faham...hahaa....bukan maksud nak mentertawakan pasal perkara ini tapi inilah keistimewaan insan yang cacat penglihatan. God Bless you!!

Kalau kita reflect balik banyak sebenarnya moral yang kita dapat. Aku tak tau la kalau yang still tak dapat lagi nak reflect sebab kita ni semua sememangnya tak sempurna. Masing-masing ada kelebihan, kat mana?? Hanya Tuhan saja yang tau sebab kita ciptaanNya dan apa semua yang berlaku adalah rencanaNya.